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Jambo, Dar es Salaam and Zanzibar

February 23 - February 27, 2013

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The trip from India to Dar es Salaam in Tanzania was quite long and tiring. Given the fact that we travelled from Kerala in South India to Delhi first and then to Dar es Salaam via Dubai it took us the better part of 28 hours to finally arrive here. It was already late afternoon on February 23 when we landed in Dar es Salaam and we got to the small immigration section where we had to fill out immigration forms and applications for our visa on arrival. Everything was a bit chaotic as one guy collected the completed forms and handed them to the immigration officers behind a number of windows. But after a relatively short wait of not more than 15 minutes we got our passports back, including fresh visas for Tanzania. Interestingly, the visa can only be paid in US dollars, so we were lucky that we had a small amount with us, just enough to pay for the 150 US$ fee for both of us – typically it’s 100 US$ pax though but for some reason they gave us a break.
After we got our passports back we just had to get through the official immigration counters and we were officially in the country, picked up our luggage and made our way outside to find transportation into the city. There were some taxi touts but we needed some money first and just picked one of the ATMs, fairly convenient if you just need some quick money but no one would change any Amex travelers checks – travelers checks seem to be less common here in Tanzania and no bank or business will accept them. They seem to become a thing of the past anyway, so make sure to stock up on cash and credit cards before travelling around the world. In Tanzania, preferably you pay in hard cash, dollars or Euros/GBP or in the local currency, the Tanzanian Shilling but dollars often give you better value for money. Once we got some money from an ATM we tried to figure out how the taxi scheme works here. Based on our experiences in India we suspected a scam behind every taxi, so we were very careful to not just follow one of the guys who said he’s an official taxi driver. Hence we talked to a couple of ladies from the local Tourist Information and they told us that taxi rates are pretty much fixed and the rates are even published on a board close to the taxi stand. So we just walked over there, saw the board, clarified the price with the guys sitting there and got a taxi driver who was assigned to us. The price for the taxi to our hotel downtown was pretty much what the two ladies told us, approximately 26 US$, which is quite high for the short ride but fuel is surprisingly expensive in a country that owns oil reserves. A liter of fuel is well over I US$, almost 5 US$ per gallon.
We arrived at our hotel downtown Dar es Salaam within 30 minutes, checked in, relaxed a bit after our long journey and reflected on our first impressions of the country.

DSC04691.jpg (View over Dar es Salaam from our hotel 'Sapphire')

First impressions: Dar es Salaam seems to have a fairly good infrastructure, good roads (if not under construction) and, quite surprisingly, the city looks pretty clean as hardly any garbage is lying around. This is in stark contrast to pretty much any Indian city we’ve visited in the last 5 weeks. Also, people seem to be very laid back, traffic can get heavy during rush hour but not as nearly as chaotic, frantic and aggressive as in India. We were a little surprised about the high prices of pretty much everything, from hotels to taxis and even half-decent food, which is very hard to find. Despite being a developing country, Tanzania certainly is not a “cheap” country and if you’d like to get any creature comforts when it comes to hotels etc., you have to shell out amounts that rival the US if not Europe in some cases. So we were a little concerned that it would be hard to manage our budget in this country. Other than that, Tanzanians seem to be polite yet reserved and even some of the touts at bus stands or the ferry pier are much less aggressive and persistent than in India. If you say “No, thanks” once or twice they actually stop pestering you.

DSC04676.jpg (One of the many Christian churches in Dar) DSC04684.jpg (Enjoying the breeze on the beach road in Dar)

Over the course of the next few weeks we obviously formed a slightly broader perspective and while we continued to enjoy the laid back and ‘non-aggressive’ attitude in Tanzania, being too laid back can get annoying as well, for example in hotels, restaurants or any business that delivers a service. Finding good service, at least what you would describe as good service in the West, is literally like finding the needle in the haystack. You could sit in an empty restaurant for hours and nobody would take your order until you start frantically waiving your hands and desperately trying to establish eye contact. Getting your order right is almost impossible and it often takes several attempts to get all the items that you ordered correctly. And for some reason, Tanzanian service personnel seems to be obsessed with cleaning your table rather than taking an order for additional food or drinks. In many restaurants it also seems to be uncommon to have a menu, which can create interesting scenarios, especially if the waiting staff are not very capable of speaking English. One time in Arusha in an outside pub/restaurant we just wanted to order a small serving of chips (French fries) as a snack and 15 minutes later the waiter came back with two large portions of fries and a whole grilled chicken – naturally accompanied with the relatively expensive bill of 20 US$. Lesson learned: if you can’t see (and touch) what you will get, don’t order it since you are in for a surprise.
A final point I want to make here before moving on is about the food in Tanzania but before I get to that let me very briefly describe a few facts about Tanzania. Tanzania, officially the United Republic of Tanzania, is a result of a union between Tanganyika and Zanzibar, which was formed in 1964, hence the name “Tan-Zan-ia”. Until 1961 Tanganyika was a British colony (Zanzibar was ruled by Arabs) and you still can see the influence in architecture, education and the second official language being English. Due to long established trading routes between India, the Middle East and East Africa there’s a strong Arab and Middle Eastern influence in Tanzania, which is apparent in the many Indian and Arab residents in Tanzania, especially in the big cities like Dar es Salaam. Interestingly, the official national language “Swahili” is a mix between Bantu (an African dialect), Hindi and Arabic. So it’s quite a melting pot of ethnic groups, religions and influences. Unfortunately this has not translated in a succulent and sophisticated cuisine, au contraire. Once you leave the big hotels or some Indian restaurants, which serve the typical decent Indian fare, food seems to mainly consist of grilled chicken and chips – boy do Tanzanians love their chicken! You literally get it everywhere and often it is the only dish that is being served. There are a few rather bland local dishes, like Ugali (made out of maize) and some rice and bean dishes, sometimes complemented by equally bland fish. So, I would not describe Tanzania as a “Foodie” destination but who cares if you have some of the most amazing wildlife right in front of your nose. And that is THE main reason to visit Tanzania, not necessarily the great history, culture, ruins or cuisine – it is the wildlife and the stunning and diverse nature that provides the backdrop for it.

So, for the next three days we just explored Dar es Salaam, taking walks across the city and along the windy beach road, which was refreshing given temperatures of 33+ degrees Celcius (> 90 degrees Fahrenheit) and high humidity. While the city is pleasant it is nothing to write home about. When we took our first walk through the city on the Sunday after our arrival it almost felt like a “ghost city” since most streets were almost empty and pretty much every store and business was closed. After India this felt eerie but we also somehow enjoyed the quietness after having been bombarded with noise for weeks.

As said above, during the first couple of days in Dar es Salaam we figured out our schedule, planned out the next few weeks and decided to travel to Zanzibar for a few days first and then to Arusha in the North of Tanzania from where we were supposed to start our safari. At this point let me say a few words about planning a safari since this can be an overwhelming experience.

Planning a safari in Tanzania:

Most tourists travel to Tanzania for the ultimate wildlife experience and understandably so. The number and size of game reserves in Tanzania is astounding and they are typically divided into the “Northern, Southern and Western Circuit”, the three main areas in Tanzania with high concentrations of national parks. In addition, there is the Kilimanjaro region and thousands of people climb Mount Kilimanjaro each year. We decided not to join the fun, firstly because we are in no shape physically to get to over 6000 meters without problems und secondly, we didn’t carry any equipment with us that would be needed, like warm clothes, hiking boots, warm sleeping bags etc. So instead of torturing our bodies I decided to stick with the local brew named after Kilimanjaro and have a “Kill time” as often displayed on some of the big advertising boards.

We were pretty open as to what parks we were going to visit and after talking with two tour operators and getting itineraries and quotes from a couple of others via email, we landed on some of the parks of the Northern Circuit, namely Serengeti, the Ngrorongoro Crater area and Lake Manyara. We hadn’t even heard of Lake Manayara before but Serengeti and Ngorongoro were names that we always associated with abundant wildlife and stunning landscapes. There are certainly numerous safari tour operators in Dar but the number of operators in Arusha is clearly dwarfing this number. But since we wanted to have a tour finalized before travelling to Zanzibar in order to not loose more time in Arusha we chose a small company with an office in Dar. Their name is Daigle Tours and is owned by a Tanzanian with a (French) Canadian passport. Since we never organized a safari before and were hesitant to fork over hundreds or thousands of dollars online without even knowing the company we made it a point to visit their small office in the Kigamboni area of Dar, which is where you find some of the beaches and beach resorts. So we took the ferry to the other side a small bay and after a small taxi ride we reached the office of Daigle Tours, right next to a fuel station. Inside the tiny office we met Samwel and his assistant and we had a chat with them about our expectations, requirements, time and money budget etc. We both felt very comfortable with Samwel, who listened well and made good suggestions as to what the best options were, so we asked him to send us an updated itinerary before making a decision. By the time we got back to our hotel in the evening and after having a lovely dinner at one of the hotels on Dar es Salaam’s South Beach Samwel had already sent us the itinerary including costs.

DSC04708.jpg (On the ferry to Kigamboni. Cost is 20 cents)

Now, for everybody who hasn’t been on a safari in East Africa…it ain’t cheap. Even the budget safari tours, which mean sleeping in very simple tents and having shared bathrooms, no frills food and a bunch of people cramped into one 4WD, it’s still difficult to get much below 150-200 US$ per day per person. But safaris are also relatively cost intensive endeavors since you need an expensive 4WD, a driver/tour guide who speaks good English or other languages, three meals a day, accommodation and park fees, which are quite expensive as well; so it really adds up. We eventually ended up with a tour in the mid-range but that meant we had our own car and driver/guide, modest but comfortable accommodation and decent food. But this was only possible since it was low season and tour operators provide good deals in order to have at least some business. Many people plan their safaris from home months in advance, and during high season from June to September and then again in December/January this is also advisable, but during low season you can walk into any tour operator office and organize a safari within two to three days. We actually were here during the “perfect” time since the weather was still very good and it didn’t rain during our safari; there are a few weeks between the high season in January and March where the weather is typically relatively stable but prices are lower. Low season also means that you are not competing with hundreds of other Land Cruisers and Range Rovers for the best spots when watching wildlife at close range. So we were quite happy about that and we could often enjoy relatively “empty landscapes” and even some of the lodges we stayed at were very quiet and only half occupied.

Zanzibar

After we had taken care of our safari planning we had a couple of days to kill before the start of our trip from Arusha in the north of Tanzania, which is located at the footsteps of Mount Meru, the second highest mountain in Tanzania after Mount Kilimanjaro. It just worked out perfectly so we could visit Zanzibar for a couple of days and head to Arusha from there. Everybody has probably heard the name Zanzibar, which many associate with the ultimate exotic destination and spice trade. But many, including us, wouldn’t know exactly where it is located. We had now the chance to find out first hand and we bought our ferry tickets for the next day from Dar to Zanzibar; the ferry sets you back approx.35 US$ per person for the two hour ferry ride. We took the 9 AM ferry the next morning and in perfect sunny weather we headed over to Zanzibar in one of the fast ferries. DSC04742.jpg (Arrival in Stone Town in Zanzibar)

Interestingly, upon arrival at Zanzibar port you need to go through a “mini immigration” procedure again. There’s no need to fork over an insane amount for the visa if you have a Tanzania visa but other than that you need to fill out the same immigration form again and show proof of your yellow fever vaccination – so all travellers to Zanzibar or many other East African countries for that matter: make sure you got your yellow fever shots and carry your immunization pass with you.

We got a taxi and drove to a small guesthouse that we had booked online before. It’s a very simple place called Mnazi House but has nice owners, free wifi and a small breakfast was included. DSC04837.jpg (Our small room at our B&B 'Mnzai House')

A small mosque is right behind the building so we definitely got our dose of Muslim prayers early in the morning and late evening. On the opposite side of the guest house is the building of the Zanzibar Weightlifting Association, presumably to ensure physical fitness after the spiritual one although we never saw a soul actually lifting any weights inside; everybody was just sitting around chatting all day. Well, I don’t blame them since the temperatures in Zanzibar were super hot when we were there. The only way to feel comfortable during the way was to sit in one of the small cafes at the harbor or in the old Stone Town. Besides the many beautiful beaches the Old Town of Zanzibar city is really the main reason why many people visit the island and we really fell in love with it. DSC04883.jpg (A beautiful beach in Zanzibar)

The architecture is hard to describe since it is very eclectic but it has a Mediterranean feel to it and is a mix of Indian, Middle Eastern and other ‘Oriental’ influences. DSC04758.jpgDSC04769.jpgDSC04798.jpg (The Stone Town in Zanzibar)

Wandering around the Old City, the fish market at the harbor and the small parks along the way is a visual adventure and luckily there are many small bars and cafes where you can rest, have a drink and take in the atmosphere. We also found out that Zanzibar is the birthplace and former home of Freddie Mercury, the legendary lead singer of one of the greatest bands ever, Queen. Freddie had spent his first years right here in Zanzibar before going to boarding school in Bombay in India and from there to the UK. DSC04824.jpg (Market in Zanzibar)DSC04787.jpg (Freddie Mercury's birth place in Stone Town)

We had dinner at a small local place, which a taxi driver recommended to us. It is called “Lukman” (pronounced ‘Look Maan’), which served rice with veggies, greens, beans etc. but also small fish and chicken. It was very cheap and Zanzibar is not necessarily a cheap place, even a little more expensive than the rest of Tanziania, which is pricey in the first place. But even here, while it tasted ok we would have expected better seasoned food being on the “spice island” and all. So don’t get your hopes up and expect great food anywhere in Tanzania or even Zanzibar; it is mediocre at best.
Two other things were on our list of Must Do’s while being here: visiting a spice farm and the former slave market. So we visited a spice farm in the mountains and did a very informative tour of the different spices and fruits that grow here. It was quite fascinating to taste the spices right from the tree or plant and we started to understand why Zanzibar got the reputation it still has today. Some of the spices just taste phenomenal, for instance the Zanzibarian cinnamon doesn’t just taste like your monther’s regular cinnamon that you buy at Walmart; it is also very sweet and very spicy – I am sure you’ve never tasted anything like it…we hadn’t. DSC04859.jpg (Spice farm tour)

Finally, we spent some time at the former slave market. It is located in Stone Town and it is a fascinating and at the same time utterly depressing and sad experience. This site was the last slave trading post in Africa and it used to be a slave trading hub for slaves from South and East Africa and as far as the modern DRC (Congo). Slaves that were captured in their villages, in fact often by their own countrymen, had to walk in shackles sometimes for weeks or months to reach the east coast of Tanganyika from where they were shipped to Zanzibar. Once there, they were kept for days in hot, filthy and dark small chambers in the basement of St. Monica's Hostel, which was built in 1890 above the slave chambers. As you can imagine, many of the slaves died either on their long march or in the inhuman conditions in the chambers. As cruel as it sounds, and we all know what monstrosities humans are capable of, this was a way to select the strongest slaves out of the crowd who were eventually shipped, again under appalling conditions, to countries like Oman, other Arab countries, Jamaica/Caribbean etc. It was hard to listen to the explanations of the guide but eventually slavery was abolished in 1873. Following the closure of the Slave Market by Sultan Barghash, missionaries bought the site and built the Anglican Cathedral (Cathedral Church of Christ) on this location and freed slaves helped with its construction under the guidance of Bishop Edward Steere. The altar of the cathedral stands on the spot of the whipping tree, which is a chilling sight. A window is dedicated to Dr. David Livingstone, the initiator of the abolition of slavery. The church's crucifix is made from the wood of a tree in Zambia, under which the heart of Livingstone is buried. Behind the cathedral there is a stone sculpture of five slaves in a pit, tied with original iron shackles and chains. DSC04832.jpg (Zanzibar's former slave market) DSC04889.jpgDSC04891.jpg (The slave chambers) DSC04893.jpg (The Cathedral Church of Christ at the site of the former slave market) DSC04901.jpg (Stone memorial at the former slave market) DSC04907.jpg (Whipping post inside the Anglican Cathedral)

The following day, after a short walk in blistering heat and a refreshing lunch in one of the many cozy cafes of Stone Town we headed out to the airport to take our flight to Arusha. It’s always an experience to fly from these small remote airports. When our flight was called - called in the literal sense by a person shouting our destination Arusha into the waiting room - we walked to our plane along the runway, which was a small 6 seater and our pilot was a young French guy, who didn’t look older than 20 years old. With us was just one more passenger, a young German guy travelling alone through East Africa. Our pilot was a pretty funny guy and since it was so hot, he just opened his door and held it open until we had taken off, so the colder air cooled down the temperature inside the boiling hot plane. Once at cruising altitude, he took out his Kindle and started reading, only occasionally looking out the window to orient himself and until it was time to start the approach into Arusha. A Pretty relaxed attitude for a pilot, especially given the fact that in these small planes there’s no autopilot or the like but it was still fun having the small plane almost to ourselves and being able to have some interesting little chats with the pilot, sitting just behind his seat. DSC04930.jpg (Our pilot enjoying a good book)

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Africa – the “Dark Continent”

February 23 - March 29, 2013

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In the olden days and even today many people referred to Africa as the “dark continent” since so little was known about it. Nowadays, this has obviously changed and many countries and locations in Africa are well known, relatively well developed and travelled. However, for us Africa is still admittedly unknown since we never travelled here with the exception of Egypt, which is very different from many sub Saharan countries. But before our arrival in Dar Es Salaam in Tanzania, our first port of entry, we literally knew nothing about sub Saharan Africa beyond what we could read on the internet and the picture that we’ve formed over the years based on TV and newspaper reports. As you can imagine this is a very ambiguous and varied picture and is very different by regions and countries in Africa; things that come to mind are on the one hand negative descriptors like war, corruption, tribal or ethnic conflicts, famines and droughts or economic struggles. On the other hand there are of course the pictures of vast plains with grazing herds of wildlife but also recent success stories about Africa including a thriving movie industry (i.e. Nollywood) or fast growing and increasingly economically successful local economies, Tanzania being one of them. We also mainly picked Dar es Salaam in Tanzania as our entry point into Africa because of stories about the great wildlife in this country but other than that we were pretty ‘blank’ and had not much of an idea what to expect.

Now, three and a half days after arriving in Dar Es Salaam we’ve formed a much better picture about the country and what our plans are for the rest of our trip in the “dark continent”. It always makes it much easier to connect with a country and determine what to do once you are on the ground, at least that’s our experience. In the last few days we’ve done some more research and talked to people on the ground, a few tourists but mostly locals and a few travel agents; the internet is always a great resource of course. So we have a good idea as to how our next few weeks shape up and here’s a brief outline of our travel plans:

Zanzibar (2-3 days): Zanzibar is a short ferry ride from Dar Es Salaam and the “old town” and pristine beaches sound very interesting.

Safari (5-6 days): We have finalized a trip with a local tour operator for a safari to the Serengeti, Ngorogoro Crater and Lake Manyara, the “big three” wildlife parks in Tanzania.

Scuba Diving (6-8 days): in Tofo in Mozambique; we’ve heard many good reports about diving in this South African country.

South Africa/Cape Town (8-10 days): we’ve always wanted to visit Cape Town based on the many glowing reports from friends but also in order to do cage diving with great white sharks.

We are still flexible and things can change based on changing visa requirements etc. but at this point the above is our rough plan and below is a map, which shows the different locations in an overview.

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Agra – Varanasi (Benares) – Kolkata (Calcutta)

January 31 - February 11

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Agra

We were now leaving the state of Rajasthan and heading toward Uttar Pradesh where our first stop would be Agra. We didn't stop at any villages on the way but when we stopped for a drink late in the afternoon a couple decorated cars packed with men stopped as well. It was a wedding party of the groom and his men on their way to one of the multiple day celebrations customary in weddings. The groom, Bhanu, was very charming and honored us with an invitation to his wedding. I would have loved to attend but we still had quite a bit of driving left and weren't dressed appropriately either so with true regrets we declined. Back on the road we passed numerous wedding processions and they are quite the production. The groom travels on an elephant or in a highly decorated elevated seat, typically with a young boy (similar to ring bearer) seated next to him. He's surrounded by friends and relatives, noise and music makers. Young boys carrying decorated candelabras of lights and the generators for the lights are for hire and are a part of every procession. The noise is tremendous and it completely clogs traffic but no one cares. January is apparently wedding season so every mile or so we'd encounter another procession. The first one we saw we got out of the car to take some pictures and get a closer look especially as traffic had slowed to a halt. Some of the groom's relatives were delighted to see us and begged us to join the groom atop his throne. We were reluctant thinking this would detract from the purpose but they insisted it would be an honor so we gave in and rode with him for a bit. It felt strange, like we were part of a Thanksgiving parade but was kinda fun too. Interestingly, the driver of the truck pulling the wagon started to demand that we give some money to the groom. We were startled by this and secretly disappointed but thought maybe it was the custom so reached into our pockets. Fortunately the groom's man who'd invited us up picked up on what was happening and immediately rebuked the driver and emphatically stated “no money”. The driver who was hired and not a member of the wedding party didn't like it and argued but there wasn't much he could do. Once we got down though we made sure to enjoy the other processions from inside the car.

DSC03671.jpg (Wedding Procession Crashers)

The traffic, dust, noise and chaos is beyond what you can imagine as you get closer to Agra. For many tourists if they only visit one place in the north it’s Agra because it's where the Taj Mahal is located. Elmar had seen it before and I was excited to see if it would live up to expectations. We made it to our hotel late in the evening and made plans for Ajay to introduce us to a local guide later in the evening. When we met Hilal however, he had bad news for us. The Taj as it always is on Fridays, would be closed the next day. The tour operator had not checked the day just made the plan according to dates. We refused to miss it so even though it would create a bit of complication with our train tickets to Varanasi we had them extend the time in Agra. It was well worth it. The Taj lives up to and exceeds every expectation. This rather than Udaipur held true romance. The story goes that Shah Jahan loved his wife Mumtaz Mahal over all other wives and concubines so much that when she died after bearing his 14th! child he built the Taj as a monument and to enshrine her body. Words cannot begin to do it justice and the pictures aren't able to capture enough of what it evokes so best is to put it on your bucket list. The entry fee is steep, over 700Rps. but no one cares even when you know that locals only pay 50 Rps. Your ticket at least allows access through the express line so don't feel bad when you zip pass hundreds of locals in line. It also helps to maintain the Taj and other monuments that are less popular and you get a discount to see a few other sites if you go the same day. It's good to go with a decent guide too as there are lots of interesting details and facts about the construction you might miss otherwise. You'll have to tolerate the hokey poses for pictures but it's well worth it. The Agra Fort is worth a visit too as much of it was built with the same symmetry and translucent marble that marks Shah Jahan's style and it's where he spent his last days in style gazing at the Taj across the river. In reality, he'd been imprisoned by his own son. The day it was closed we viewed the Taj from the gardens across the river and the colours were very different from when we toured it the next day. If you can, try to at least view the Taj at a different time than your proposed tour as the differences will be remarkable. That's if the smog allows. Pollution is terrible in Agra and the haze can be bad enough to spoil any early morning views.
DSC03800.jpgDSC03840.jpg (The Taj Mahal from across the river)
DSC03949.jpgDSC03952.jpg (...and the Taj from the front)

Hilal also took us to a local Dhaba for some simple but delicious local food. Agra's strong Mughlai influence is reflected in the cream and curd based sauces (that I'm partial to, especially cashew cream) as well as the curries and should definitely be sampled. As is the case in much of our trip we paid no more than $10.00 for the four of us.

It was time to say goodbye to Ajay as we would be continuing our trip by train. He was a really careful and thoughtful driver/guide and we'd been lucky to get him. The big question was how to tip. There were some guidelines on the internet that were helpful in sharing typical daily rates which are about $10 - 20 per day. Ultimately, you choose what you feel is right based on the service you received and that's what we did.

The train ride from Agra to Varanasi is best described as an adventure. India has the largest train system in the world and you can travel for days or for short hops between cities. There are luxury trains such as Palace on wheels where you can travel in lavish style on specific routes for about US$ 1000 per day and your standard commuters with sleeping compartments for the price of a cheap meal in the US or Europe. Many have not been updated since built by the British and not all have air conditioning available. When you book you select the class of seating. Typically each train will have about 4 -5 classes ranging from first class/air conditioned to 3rd class unreserved no air con or sleeping facilities. A train journey is an essential part of the experience here if you want a taste of daily life, but I would not recommend the unreserved third class for anyone on their first trip and definitely not if you're travelling overnight unless you enjoy feeling like a packed sardine. Tickets are very affordable when you consider the extensive distances they travel so opt for the reserved section and keep in mind that it's better to use a reputable booking agent rather than try to do it yourself on line. Once booked however, there's an APP that tracks the progress of every train and can let you know if your train is delayed or not and if so, will provide progress updates as it nears your pick up station. We did not have this App for our first train trip and ended up waiting 6 hours for our train and arriving at our final destination with a 12 hour delay. The waiting room, which was designated as 'first class' was a sight to behold. I should state that we were not at the main station in Agra but had travelled to Tundla, which is about 25 Km outside of Agra. Avoid this station if at all possible. The first class waiting room had a few metal seats stretching against the wall leaving a wide area in the middle. This was soon to be filled with tired of waiting passengers who laid on the floor surrounded by their luggage and promptly fell sound asleep. Huge, and I mean huge rats darted in and out of the room scurrying through holes near the doorway. I refused to go to the ladies' room which was in another room after Elmar told me that the men's room which was through an open arch right off the room where we sat, had more feces on the walls than in the toilets.
Ajay, bless his heart, had arranged for a porter, or kuli how they are called in India, to tell us when our train was close and take us to the correct platform. This at least allowed us to relax since we couldn't understand the updates, which were only provided in Hindi. The food available in the snack bar looked dubious at best and to be frank, when you stood outside the door of the waiting room you can only breathe through your mouth or turn blue trying to hold your breath because of the stench. The tracks serve as a dumping ground for every bit of garbage generated by the thousands that transit the station. Many of the trains also don't have a waste disposal so the toilets all flush directly on to the tracks. Hence the very healthy rats who enjoy a sumptious daily buffet. DSC04127.jpg (Rats having a feast)

This station was also home to a million starlings who roosted in the eaves and wires above. They also added their perfume and if you tried to stand near the door of the waiting room to view oncoming trains or ease your boredom, you were guaranteed a bird dropping or two. Finally the porter came and got us and we huddled our freezing toes unto the platform only to wait there for another 90 minutes as it took the train that long to get it's turn to pull into the station. Once we found the right compartment which you do by reading the car numbers and letters on the outside of the coach to match your reservation ticket, the adventure became more positive. We had two top bunks as we agreed to swap our bottom bunk with an older couple who were sharing one bunk bed. We both slept quite well and found the ride fairly smooth and rhythmic. After what we'd just experienced it felt like luxury. There were sheets, blanket and pillow, a reading light by each bunk, a small night stand and pouch for water. DSC03994.jpg (Travelling in cozy 2nd class A/C)

The next morning hawkers came by selling chai and omelets and they were pretty tasty. It's a bit of a strange environment sharing intimacies with strangers in the small compartment. It might have been that they didn't speak English, we didn't know as somehow they and us enveloped ourselves in a little private world where we avoided looking at or talking to each other. All in all, while I never want to go back to Tundla, I was glad to have my first train experience. The next time I watch Slumdog Millionaire I will for sure have a great frame of reference.

Varanasi

The oldest living city known and also called the city of light by the many devotees who travel here to be cleansed and get in touch with the divine. The city is considered to be so holy that if you die here you achieve instant Moksha or enlightment, which is the zenith of Hindu faith and means you won't need to be reincarnated. It draws pilgrims from all over the world, the devout as well as the curious. Everything centers on the Ganges river or the Ganga as the Indians call it. The access to the Ganga lies via the Ghats which are concrete steps leading right into the river. It is here that you will see some of the most bizarre looking people in search of and performing all kinds of rituals to purify themselves. Because the Hindus believe that salvation can be obtained after death, it's also the ultimate burial place. Every day between 100-150 bodies are cremated by dedicated cremators called the untouchables. The ashes are then scattered into the river in hope of achieving salvation. Our first evening here we took a walk down a series of the many alleyways that make up the city and fought our way through the thick throng of people heading to or away from the ghats. DSC04009.jpg (Devotees taking a bath in the holy Ganges)

There are about a hundred ghats here and each has significance and is visited for different reasons. The most popular are those where the live cremations take place and where elaborate celebrations occur. We could see the smoke from the funeral pyres but our new local guide took us to one where we could view the evening celebratory performance. We hopped unto a long boat and joined the many other tourist filled boats on the river. You typically have to haggle over boat prices but ours had been secured by the tour group so we just paid as we were directed. You are typically given an offering of a floating candle surrounded by a few petals that you light and set in the river with whatever prayer you're inspired to mutter or simply to follow the custom. As the sun sets all the boats begin to cluster around the main ghat where the daily celebration of life which they believe comes from the river, occurs. Around seven young monks dressed in vibrant orange and yellow robes, perform a ritual of chanting and coordinated low key dancing while playing a series of percussion instruments, burning and throwing incense. It lasts about 30-40 minutes and is the type of thing you get out of it what you put in. We could see some boats trying to get out after about 10 mins while others held people riveted and some even crying. DSC04020.jpg (The daily 'celebration of life' ritual on the Ganges in Varanasi)

The next day we visited Sarnath, which is about 15 Km north of Varanassi. It's not as popular a destination but it's here that Budha gave his very first sermon and began to record the main tenets of the Buddhist faith; then just a philosophical concept. DSC04056.jpg (Buddha's first sermon to five followers)

The atmosphere here is as one would expect for a Buddhist center, quiet and peaceful. There are museums close by that house a lot of relics but aren't a must see from my perspective. Our guide was really interesting, he was a devout Hindu who studied philosophy. When we asked a question, unlike many others we'd met, he refused to pretend knowledge if he didn't know. He provided a very simple explanation of the main tenets of Buddhism and shared other basic beliefs of Hinduism. It was amazing how similar they are to Christianity in many ways. There is a consistent theme of the first man and woman, the need for holiness or purity and the sacrifice of One who took on human form. It's his belief that there is only one God even though he may have different names and people chose different paths for worship. It left me wondering why we spend so much time majoring on the minor differences rather than respecting each others preferences.DSC04062.jpg (The stupa in Sarnath where remains of Buddha Sidharta are buried)

On our own later that afternoon, Elmar and I decided to visit some of the other ghats. We loved the narrow quaint little alleyways that meander through the old city on the way there. They look more like what I imagine an old city to look like. It seems I'm not alone in my preference as there are a number of German bakeries and restaurants offering Korean Japanese and Syrian dishes among others so they are well frequented by tourists. It was about then that I made a discovery. There is a rhythm that you develop from wandering the streets in India. Your eyes constantly roam taking in as much as you can of the life teeming by. At the same time, you have to keep an eye on the road as cow dung, sink holes rubble and refuse abound. You also begin to get a feel for when cyclists, rickshaws or cars are on your tail and you're soon bobbing, dodging and weaving with the general flow. When you get to this point you really begin to relax and enjoy yourself and you realise you've finally adapted. The cacophony of hawkers, horns, and animals are not necessarily soothing but they are no longer bombarding your senses and you can absorb more fluidly key focal points. Before then, you're just a piece of flotsam being dragged along with the rush of human tide and you're only grasping at what's around you in surges. You look and think you've taken in an entire vista, which you did, but the intensity of the next distracting wave makes it difficult to sort it all and you desperately hope that you're remembering what you want. But back to our walk to river banks and ghats. We got a bit lost through the alleyways but we didn't mind at all and eventually they all lead to a ghat so it was just a longer route. This is where the very mellow spiritualists hang out and we were asked several times if we wanted some weed. Some were strumming guitars and singing Bob Marley tunes while others bathed in the river and even drank a bit of it. DSC04099.jpgDSC04105.jpgDSC04106.jpg (Holy men, saddhus and other enlightened cats in Agra)

This is the fascination of this city, that the familiar and alien and often what we would consider private are on public display. We wandered from one ghat to the next and were having such a good time that we were almost late for our pick up at the hotel. We would be taking the train for the final destination of the tour then we would be on our own.

Kolkata

The train from Varnassi to Kolkata was not as smooth a ride as Agra to Varanasi but thankfully the train station wasn't as bad as Tundla. There were no birds with their horrible droppings and rats were not as visible and numerous. We were running a bit late and thought the train would be similarly delayed but we only had a 2 hr wait. At this station just outside of Varanasi, male and female waiting rooms were strictly separated so we couldn’t sit together in the waiting room. DSC04118.jpg (Female 'VIP' waiting room)

We ate a simple meal bought from the train service rather than an independent provider and this proved to be a mistake for Elmar. The next couple days would be pretty miserable for him. Lesson learnt, be wary of food provided by the Rail service, use the independent vendors. We also had an interesting experience that exposed us to another side of train behaviours. When we boarded the train, our compartment had only one bunk available. We started to question the gentleman occupying our bunk and he in stilted broken English kept repeating number. 11. Our seats were 1 A and B. After a few moments where we checked and confirmed our reservation, we finally understood that he wanted us to switch one of our seats because he and his wife had separate seats and wanted to stay together. The thing is, he wasn't asking but was telling us to take his wife's bunk, which was down the corridor at number 11. We politely said no but it became clear he wasn't interested in that answer and was shooing us away. Elmar decided the nice guy route wasn't working so he stood taller, got closer, looked directly in his eyes and in a quiet voice said 'No, get out!'. That got his attention and all of a sudden the arrogant demeanour disappeared and without another word he grabbed his luggage sheet and blanket and scampered from the compartment. During all this commotion the other passenger who was in the bunk above his wife slept the sleep of death. We'd noticed this before that so many people here could sleep soundly at the drop of a hat regardless of the location, discomfort or noise level. It's quite a gift and if we could figure it out we could make a killing on the thousands of insomniacs in the west. The rest of the trip was uneventful and we arrived in Kolkata not too far from our scheduled time and were taken to the lovely ‘Peerless Inn’ hotel which is very close to the Esplanade and the main city center as well as Sudder street, which is one of the main backpacker areas in town. We had given an ultimatum to the tour operators as the quality of the hotels had been steadily slipping as we travelled. We would arrive in a city to a different and sometimes inferior one than had been promised. They responded to the feedback and we not only had a decent hotel but were upgraded to a suite. The service was good which is often a hit and miss even in some of the finer hotels and especially in restaurants. Often when eating out, we couldn't help but notice that the wait staff would get totally engrossed in clearing a table or diligently doing something useful like shining the silverware and seem to studiously avoid looking in a customer's direction. It wouldn't matter if the place was empty or packed to the gills. This place was a noticeable exception and was such a boon after our constant pack and go mode we decided to extend our stay. That wasn't the only reason however, the other is, we were really enjoying Kolkata. In contrast to the many hyped cities we'd visited, Kolkata was quite clean, traffic was manageable, the pace was less frenetic and people were polite and left you alone if that's what you wanted. Most of the taxi and rickshaw drivers would turn their engines off if waiting, something we had not seen anywhere else. DSC04136.jpg ("Human Horses" in Kolkata, hand pulled rickshaws, the only city in India where you still find them)

There were also lovely gardens donated by corporations or legacies of the British with enforced no trash rules. We were curious as to the difference and as we read the newspapers we discovered the reason. Mamata Banerje is the current chief minister of West Bengal, with Kolkata as its capital, and definitely controversial. Each day we spent in Kolkata there was a new expose in the papers of how she yelled at her bodyguard or some hapless staff member or made some inappropriate comment about an ethnic group. On the other hand, we also discovered that she had initiated a 'clean city' campaign that was obviously working and was a strong promoter of the arts being an artist herself. The streets in the city are wider and better constructed than others we'd seen, thanks again to the Brits who had made this their capital in former years but Mamata was also ensuring proper maintenance and continuation. This was the first city we visited that even the smallest side street was paved, swept daily and repairs in evidence. We enjoyed reading the daily stories about her and despite the negative comments applauded her efforts. Kolkata has a bad reputation for being a really dirty, poor and unsafe city but we found the exact opposite. Every day we took the metro, which is Russian designed and runs from Dum Dum near the airport to Kavi Nazrul in the south, and found it clean (you could be fined if caught spitting), safe, efficient and cheap. We walked the streets for fairly long distances late at night and never once felt unsafe. The city actually shuts down pretty early so by 10pm all the street stalls are closed and only the street and sidewalk cleaners are about. The variety and quality of food offered in the city was also a nice surprise. While we still enjoyed meals at local joints we also tried out some more upscale restaurants. Our favourite places were Peter Cat DSC04217.jpg DSC04218.jpg (Peter Cat, our favorite eating jaunt), Tangerine DSC04213.jpg (Late dinner at Tangerine) and Bar-B-Q, all on or close to Park street. Peter Cat is a fusion of middle eastern and Indian and is not to be missed. There's always a long queue for dinner but it's worth the wait. We would definitely recommend the Chello kebab - mutton and chicken kebabs on a bed of buttered rice, which is the most popular dish and is flavourfilled melt in your mouth good. At Tangerine the service is great. They listen, know about the different dishes on offer and are not reluctant to offer recommendations. We enjoyed the mutton biryani a lot. Bar-B-Q, a Chinese restaurant right on Park street where most of the well frequented restaurants are, is pretty decent too but the servings are huge so best to go with a group and get less dishes than number of guests. You will still have leftovers. At all of these places we still did not pay more than US$ 25 including wine/beer for our meals so while not daily fare for your typical back packer they are not exorbitant.
Besides food there are some nice places to visit here as well and lots of cultural events. The Victoria Memorial is absolutely lovely and saved from looking too manicured by families picnicking and romping in the many gardens. DSC04195.jpgDSC04182.jpg (Victoria Memorial)

Not too far away is St Paul's cathedral and the Academy of Fine Arts. Another surprise for us here is the tolerance for public affection. We visited Maidan gardens and were amazed as every bench and shady tree was occupied by young Indian couples nuzzling, cuddling and kissing with open abandon. We'd been told this was taboo in India so were delighted to see people expressing affections so openly.

Elmar had also been here on his trip 20 years ago and saw much more advancement than he had in Delhi or any other place he visited for that matter. We visited Mother Theresa's (Sisters of Charity) mother house where he'd spent significant time on his previous trip helping to take care of the indigent and he noticed that the building had been given a face lift. He also saw a huge difference in terms of less poor sleeping in the streets. We found the city sophisticated and easy to wander through and most of all, very relaxing. It was hard to leave Kolkata and we promised ourselves to return and spend more time there, but it was time to move on.

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In the Land of Kings and Hawkers - Rajasthan

January 22 - 31 Delhi – Jaipur – Jodhpur – Udaipur – Pushkar – Ranthambore Nationial Park

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Fear not, I'm not planning on doing a step-by-step recounting of our tour. Instead I'll let the pictures do most of the talking and share some additional thoughts of each city and anything interesting on the way. The plan is one full day of travel as it's often several hundred km between these cities. We will have an evening and one full day in each city. Pretty much, the days will be filled with driving or wandering around forts, temples, mosques, palaces, shops and tombs.

Jaipur, the Pink City. Youngest city named after Jah Singh II. Known for textiles and jewellery.

One of the things we feared is that our tour would resemble 'see India's Golden Triangle in 12 days', similar to the busloads of tourists who see 'Europe' in 7 days. So we told our driver who had his list of tourist attractions for each city, that we didn't want to be just passive observers of India's past but also wanted to interact with people and find out what's on their mind, and we preferred to eat at local jaunts that every day people visit rather than the tourist approved places. We hoped our message was getting across because we were noticing that often people don't wait for you to complete your thought but are so eager to take action, tell you what they think you're going to say and hurry off to do it. Our driver, Ajay Sony with the A pronounced like apple vs able, was supposedly fluent in English but we were struggling to understand him and weren't sure that he always understood us. Our first stop however let us know that he understood perfectly. We stopped right off the highway at a little 'dhaba', which is Hindi for food place selling local food. I hesitate to say restaurant as that might set the wrong expectations. This place, which was a typical roadside dhaba is basically a very simple concrete space that served as a kitchen. It has an open clay oven for making parathas, naan and the like, counter space and a single burner hot plate. Nothing was in English. The plastic tables and chairs were set out in the dirt and were open to the elements. We could see a covered building close by but when we glanced inside it was empty and we figured only used when the weather was prohibitive. Ajay rattled of the options and very shortly we had a wonderful fresh cooked meal of chapatti (bread), vegetables and various sauces. The sun was hot and felt very good as we enjoyed our meal with near by guests staring unabashedly at us. We ended the meal with freshly made tea or chai as they call it. The cooks graciously allowed me to observe them at work and to also try my hand at making the chapatti. I was marginally successful in mimicking them; whipping the dough from hand to hand then flinging it along the wall of the cone shaped oven, but they were encouraging. It's amazing sometimes how much can be communicated without words. 43DC6DAD2219AC6817E0F83F5FB01DCC.jpg43DB80122219AC6817E4F84F58A1D906.jpg43DE06B02219AC68174371FFE06B8CDC.jpg (At a roadside dhaba on the way to Jaipur)

The next stop was a wonderful family whose home was again right off the ‘highway’, deep in Rajasthan’s countryside. They were farmers and were delighted to welcome us. The family included the standard mother father and several children and also several aunts uncles numerous cousins grandparents I guess anyone remotely related to them. They crowded around us and one daughter acted as the spokesperson mainly because she was the clear extrovert in the family. She was delightful. Her English was pretty limited but she didn't let that stop her. She led the tour of the sparse but neat room she shared with her sister and the couple other spots where several people slept. 43DEF9132219AC6817A6D090F3FFDBB2.jpg 43E0C6EB2219AC68170E595B20716BE9.jpgA5A422C92219AC681701E1BE067A8907.jpg

The new litter of puppies, how they harvested crop, carried firewood and in general what life is like for them. The children all go to school but also work very hard alongside the adults to maintain the home and farm. There is no running water in the house but they do have a well with a pump close enough to the house. We were offered chai, which we of course accepted and then watched as the older sister milked the cow then built up the open fire on the ground and cooked our chai, which is a mix of cardamom, ginger, masala, cinnamon and other spices. It was delicious and I guess they could read our delight because the mother joined us and insisted that she wanted to make us another cup and enjoy it with us. It was wonderful to see the family interacting, vying for our attention like typical kids and also how everyone contributed. It was especially nice to see the younger boys taking care of the babies. When we left, we felt privileged that they allowed us into their home. With Ajay's help we could ask and answer questions but he mostly left us on our own with them. He was probably relieved not to have to translate the question about “if I was black”. It's not a stupid question because I've been told since arrival I look Indian and since my mother is half Indian I figured they were noticing things that typical westerners wouldn't. At the end of the visit I wanted to show my appreciation but didn't want to insult their kindness by offering money so I pretty much emptied my back pack of every pen lotion sweet and gum that I had and the kids went crazy fighting for each piece. Despite the short time, we somehow felt we'd made a connection and I know we'll never forget them. A5B2F3BC2219AC68172438B8D2B7F49B.jpg43DFCB882219AC6817851E50E3F7BB09.jpg A5AF5FDB2219AC6817D6EAA46AC3501B.jpg

Our hotel Shahpura House was as lovely as advertised and alleviated some concerns re us being scammed. Many of these tours offer different categories to fit your budget and it's difficult to judge what you're getting if you don't have the opportunity to speak with fellow travelers. DSC02734.jpgDSC02730.jpg (One of several 'Heritage Hotels' we stayed at)

I've promised not to provide excessive details but bear with me as this experience is worth sharing. Each morning we met, Ajay would have some local sweet, or blessing from the temple he visited, in the form of a finger touch of colour between the eyes and a stick of incense burning in the car. The morning of our tour of Jaipur he had a lei of red roses for me and wouldn't you know it, it matched my outfit perfectly so I decided to keep it on. We visited a simple yet peaceful Hindu temple where we witnessed a Brahman, (the highest caste in India) bathing in the open as he calmly sat on the ground across from the temple. I didn't want to stare but the whole time Ajay was talking about the temple I watched him out the corner of my eye. How could he be so comfortable I wondered knowing that I was there. I was to learn that bathing in public is a common practice and is done gracefully and efficientlly. He kept his groin covered with his dhoti which is an ankle length piece of cloth that men wear and often pull up to tie at their waste and hitch between their legs to make walking or climbing or in this case bathing easier. He had a bucket of water and soap and he lathered every, I mean every part of his body from head to toe vigorously. I saw nothing exposed that shouldn't be and that wasn't because I was watching indirectly but because I wasn't meant to. That isn't the point of my story but apparently I can't help the digression. I'll just say he was not unpleasant to look at, nope, not at all.

But back to the real story I want to tell. We then went to the imposing Nahargarh or Tiger Fort north of the city and were amused by the many Macacques playing around the parking lot. DSC02809.jpgDSC02758.jpg (At Nahargar/"Tiger" Fort - notice the flowers around our necks...)

Elmar was busily taking pictures and I was watching the antics of a couple of them right in front of me while waiting for the driver. Suddenly, a mamma macaque some distance away raced across the lot, her little baby hanging on to her belly, and before I could blink she jumped up on me and grabbed at my neck. I've always thought in these situations I'd be like Sydney Bristow from Alias, you know, reacting decisively and effectively, well, I didn't disappoint. I flung my hands up and yelled immediately and quite effectively I might add -"Elmar!" He raced toward me waving his hands and kicking at the macaque who was far too fast to be touched and scampered away. I couldn't figure out why she had attacked me but then someone explained she wanted my lei and Elmar added that she had a baby with her. It was unnerving but thankfully only my dignity hurt. Lesson learned, no flowers or fruit around macaques. Those sharp teeth and human like hands are no fun up close and personal. DSC03251.jpg (Macaques everywhere)
Our outstanding impression is that Jaipur is even more chaotic and dirty than Delhi and the vendors took aggressive pursuit to a new level. If you choose this city to visit, you should gear up mentally and physically, it's not for the faint of heart. We enjoyed what we saw tremendously but were more than ready to move on.

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One other thing I want to mention that doesn't show up in the pictures is that we made sure to contribute to the economy with a few purchases here. We haggled, and for sure you would not be respected if you don't, and got decent prices but not dirt cheap. I learned Asian haggling from a dear Indian friend who I watched with amazement when she visited me in China. I could not believe when she offered 50% of asking price and got away with it repeatedly. Her arguments and strategies varied but her favourite in China was based on making multiple purchases and not being afraid to walk away and not look back. In India, I learned over time that I had to literally not care whether I got the item or not because they are astute readers of emotions, a bored look works, and not be affected by the vendors subtle hurt feelings to manipulate you into feeling bad. The stories of how your purchase will help are designed to tug at the coldest heart. Even if you don't intend to purchase anything you must be prepared as part of any tour, whether planned or spontaneous will always include a stop at a gem store or someplace equal. You won't see it on the itinerary but clearly the drivers get some kind of kick back. After a torturous hour at a gem store because Ajay really wanted us to stop there, we were specific with him re what we were interested in and serious about buying and asked him to not take us to the other places. 43E745CA2219AC6817BCDCDBAD9131F5.jpg (Which vehicle has more horsepower?)

Jodhpur: The Blue City. 15th C named after chief Rao Jodha.

With relief I noted that Ajay didn't bring flowers the next morning. We set out for Jodhpur, the city where the well known riding trousers (sorry, 'pants' didn't feel right, guess I'm still under UK influence) gets its name.
We stopped for lunch at a truck stop and ate a hearty and very tasty lunch. The price for all three of us was $5.00. Elmar amazed the locals who watched in wonder as he mixed his rice, veggies and several sauces together, topped it off with some curd then smoothly and naturally proceeded to shovel it into his mouth with his hands despite being provided with a spoon. Ajay himself was amazed and forgot his lunch so he could take several pictures and a video. Eating with his hands is surprising enough but knowing how to mix the food together is something very few foreigners know how or desire to do. After lunch we walked around and I got to chew on the leaf of the Neem tree growing in the back of the property. It's famous for its use in Ayurveda to make lotions, treat acne, and nourish the hair and as tooth paste. Apparently I was hoping for the full benefits in chewing the leaf. I have a real soft spot for kids and there were some really sweet ones here. Hard working well behaved and gracious. We didn't leave money but we bought them some treats. It was funny to see something so small such a thrill for them and what a relief for us that they were completely satisfied and never hinted at wanting money from us.DSC02943.jpgDSC02941.jpg

Our next stop was a village and it was refreshing to finally see some green farmland instead of the arid and rocky landscape we crossed during the last couple of days. The journey so far had been dusty and bumpy and the landscape boringly flat and filled with either manufacturing plants or other unmemorable buildings. Here, the red soil was reflected in the brick homes, many of them with intricate designs. We met a number of the townfolk as the longer we stayed, the larger the crowd grew. The kids were very polite and orderly (we had treats and they waited their turn and didn’t fight each other or grab), the men flirty and the women shy. It took a little coaxing to get the women to share with me. As usual many were startlingly pretty and their clothes a vibrant kaleidoscope of colours. Every girl wore an ankle bracelet and even the babies had their eyes rimmed with kohl. We had noticed before but even more so as we travelled through the country side that there's an innate grace to the women. People recognize it from the bollywood dances but it was evident even when we saw them walking down the streets with stacks of wood on their heads. We were curious about daily life and what we heard and witnessed soon became a pattern as we stopped at various villages. The women start their day around 5:00am gathering sticks for the fire then heading to the closest pump for water which may be miles away and will again be carried on their heads. They plant, harvest, take care off the animals, children and prepare meals. Basically it's non stop back breaking work for them. DSC02986.jpg (A group of women getting water at a nearby well; often they have to walk for miles at a time)

Not that there weren't men working but every village we passed or stopped at we saw several groups of them playing cards and drinking chai. Ajay confirmed that this pattern was pretty normal and acceptable. DSC02969.jpgDSC02963.jpg

When we got to the city it was more of the same - chaos and lots of garbage everywhere but we found that we kinda enjoyed the blue city. If you visit, stay at a hotel with a roof top as the view is great especially as the sun is setting. We stayed at Pal Haveli, which is definitely not back packer price and is a lovely old red stone noble home with a great roof top restaurant. DSC03000.jpg (View from the rooftop terrace at our hotel Pal Haveli)

There are no elevators so be prepared for unusually steep steps. The rooms can be a little dark and as with most old buildings the plumbing is an adventure. We had to take our shower squatting under the 3 foot high faucet as there wasn't a tub and the water couldn't make it up to the shower head. Wish I could share a picture of 6 foot 4 Elmar doing his 'shower' moves, I call it the chicken squat. Another reason we like the city is we were already tired of being led around by Ajay as nice as he was, so we took off on our own and just wandered around. We ended up in the more residential area away from the tourists and touts and discovered quieter and cleaner streets. People were genuinely helpful when we asked for directions and no one tried to sell us anything. We met two lovely very articulate young girls who stopped us asking the same questions, where are you from, what's your name, but they were just wondering if we had any simple coins from our country they could have. It was great just having a normal conversation without a hidden agenda and to hear their passion for school and curiosity of the world. They also stirred my curiosity because I've been noticing how self assured young girls are here regardless of status. I have no research to base it on but I also noticed that many fathers are more nurturing toward their children here. They frequently hug and nuzzle, carry around and play with boys and girls alike and I wonder if that with the high emphasis on education in many states are factors. Would be interesting to explore further. DSC03157.jpg (That's why Jodhpur is called the 'blue city')

There are many Muslims in the northern cities of India and it’s been that way for centuries. Mughals conquered the Rajasthan region during medieval times but were fairly lenient in some aspects because they often allowed the Maharajas in different cities to continue ruling independently as long as they were allies and paid their dues.Today, the Mughal influence can be seen everywhere in the architecture of many of the sites and Islam is a choice religion for many Indians. We saw so many women with their saris covering their entire faces and were often woken at 5:00 am with the call to prayer blaring through loudspeakers. I deeply admire the Indians' tolerance. They have no problems with existing peaceable with other faiths and in fact, in the Hindu belief the ‘guru’ Sai Baba teaches to accept and reflect all others.

Our favourite site here is the Meherangarh fort and is not to be missed. It rises majestically and imposingly right from the mountains. There are several options to get to the entry gate from the road including a ride on a decorated elephant; however, we went with the mundane car and driver. Most of the sites have audio guide tours and while we would say bypass most of them, the one at this fort was pretty decent. DSC03065.jpgDSC03083.jpg (Meherangarh Fort)

The other must experiences are two food delights. Right at the base of the town clock in the main town square is a very tiny stall where the renowned ‘Omelette Man’ cooks up a mean fare. He started out cooking a variety of dishes but after the Lonely Planet, which seems to be the bible of guide books these days, can make or break your business, extolled his omelets, he now only specializes in omelet making and is much richer and happier for it. You can believe the hype, they are delish and cheap. We tried the masala and the cheese and it was finger lickin’ good. Despite his increased wealth he refuses to change anything about his winning approach so each day he stands all day from 10:00 am to 10:00 pm in a little area of no more than 1 by 1 meter and with one omelet pan churns out each order. DSC03011.jpg (The 'Omelet Man' in Jodhpur)
His son who is very proud of his dad takes the orders and tries to get you to visit his little souvenir business down the street and also plans to open up another restaurant. It's always nice to see passion and honest hard work paying off and we wish them luck. The other food delight is the lassis from a little sweet shop right around the corner from the omelet man, right underneath the clock tower and called ‘Mishrilal Hotel’. Lassi is a yogurt drink that is a staple in the local diet and can be bought anywhere on the street either salty or flavoured with spices or fruit. I have heard that there is a version flavoured with cannabis but I can't speak to that. This guy's is the gourmet version. His drink has added spices to the unfruited version and is more like a super thick milk shake that you eat with a spoon vs drink it. Believe me it was addictive. So much so we couldn't resist making one last stop on our way out of the city.DSC03274.jpgDSC03277.jpg (Easily the best lassi and sweets in India)

Udaipur - Southern Rajisthan estab mid 16th C by Udai Singh II of Sisodia royal family. Probbably one of oldest surviving dynasties in the world

Rather than via highway, our guide took us through the back roads to Udaipur. We discovered a much greener India and at times much cleaner. It was Republic day and we stopped on the way to experience some of the celebrations. He chose a village school and we joined the program already in progress that was put on by the students. As with all things with kids, the performance was endearing. We met and took pics with the Maharajah of the region. We were allowed to sit up front with what looked like the dignitaries and I felt slightly awkward as I noticed that there was only one other woman there. The others stood around or sat on the ground with the children. They treated us very graciously and included us in the meal after the program. I was encouraged to see a booth in cooperation with one of the UN agencies educating all on the importance of nutrition, education and care of infants to toddlers. It was simple but effective and run by a woman who seemed to love and was proud of what she was doing. DSC03294.jpg (Celebrations on Republic Day)

The next stop seemed random. Ajay noticed a man through a doorway right off the street who appeared to be churning something. He backed up and as he explained it that he was making mustard seed decided to get out the car and join the man for a closer look. Pretty soon other villagers poured in and were warmly welcoming. They always want to share something with us, usually water or chai. The chai we can drink but the water which is so precious to them we always have to refuse which I hate doing. We met a couple college students who were best friends and the proud father who shared his story and delight in sending all his children to school. The girls, dressed alike, both wanted to be teachers and seemed determined to achieve their dreams together. They were both fluent in English so our conversation flowed easily. The woman in charge of the mustard seed churning shared a horrible tasting sweet made from the mustard seed and we could tell she was very proud to share with us. I really tried to get down a couple bites but it was tough. I was able to palm it off to Elmar to finish to avoid any embarassment. Mustard seed oil is apparently good for skin, hair, cooking and massage oils. We would have bought some but this was the raw manufacturing stored in clay pots and we didn't have a bottle or anything handy. It's always hard to leave the villages as they enjoy us as much as we enjoy them but it was time to push on.

We next stopped at an extraordinarily beautiful marble temple and learned it was built by the followers of the Jain religion. We did the tour with the temple priest/guide who said its no wall, 1,400 column structure was built by illiterates. The religion sounded weirdly interesting. They don't believe in the caste system and promote non violence to the extent that they won't eat root vegetables because harvesting them means killing bugs. Pilgrims can stay there free of cost and I was beginning to think, hmm pretty good until the priest made it clear that what he initially offered as a no additional charge tour really meant not just a tip of our choosing but a tip that he approved of. We had already intended to leave a gift and still did but somehow I'm still taken aback at the blatant begging and leaching of tourists especially when it comes from people you don't expect it from or after you think you're connecting with someone on a different level. DSC03323.jpg

I'm not going to say much about the city of Udaipur except that I was disappointed on many levels. It's touted in the guidebooks as THE romantic destination as the city cradles what's referred to as beautiful Lake Pichola and is overlooked by towering mountains. I found the lake dirty and smelly and while the palace we visited was lovely, we were disappointed that the current royal family lived in California and received not only the profits from the tours, but anyone who did business in the palace, such as selling souvenirs or running a little cafe had to fork over 50% of their earnings. I wouldn't care about this except that there didn't seem to be any giving back to the city. Poverty is rampant here with many in shantys or sleeping on the street. The roads are terrible, clean water a problem and buildings in poor condition. Accommodations were severely over priced especially if you opted for any of the hotels on the lake but in general as well. It was hard for me to feel romantic or that I wanted to spend anymore money here.DSC03362.jpgDSC03387.jpg (City Palace in Udaipur)

Pushkar

I unfortunately developed a bad cold after Udaipur which may have also contributed to my blighted view so we didn't make any stops on the way to Pushkar. To be honest, I don't remember a lot other than it being more of the same arid, dirty desert cities we'd been experiencing so far and that we had problems with the hotel not having our booking. We couldn't tell if the booking agent had messed up or the hotel decided they could get a better rate from walk-in guests. Reception was barely polite and his suggestion of coming back the next night unacceptable. This is where a seasoned guide comes in handy because Ajay got on his phone and soon had us booked in a decent place he knew of. Pushkar is a strictly vegetarian city so no eggs, meat or alcohol are allowed but there are around 500 temples dotted all around the lake so I guess you find one if the urge for non veg or a little spirit hits too hard. Apparently too this is the mecca if you're looking to buy a camel or two. It's the largest camel market in the world and we'd just missed the annual event. It sounded interesting in theory but as Ajay described some of the details like thousands of camels and dealers haggling all day I couldn't drum up one bit of regret. More interesting for us is connecting with people and we had an interesting conversation with the owner of the pizza restaurant where we went for dinner. Pizza would not be our choice usually in India but he was a friend of Ajay and invited us to join him around an open fire just as we were leaving. Like so many Indians he was very well educated and had very strong views, particularly about respecting life, which he spoke passionately about. His ultimate point was that he was frustrated that as the most developed of life forms we as humans choose to kill animals for food when we don't have to. It was a lively conversation that we thoroughly enjoyed and left some food for thought as well as he raised some good points. Sadly he also spoke about the rampant corruption in the government that kept too many people trapped in poverty. We spoke long into the evening about what life is really like in India and might have gone longer but we noticed poor Ajay struggling to keep his eyes open. So we quickly said our goodbyes and left with that satisfied feeling you get when you've had a really stimulating conversation with interesting company.DSC03447.jpgDSC03462.jpg (The holy lake in Pushkar) DSC03478.jpg (Impressions from Pushkar) DSC03488.jpg (A local specialty, chapatis soaked in honey)

Ranthambore

Our next stop provided a release from the standard meandering through temples, palaces and tombs. Ranthambore is a small national park and is home to a healthy population of tigers who we were told hunt in the open and are not perturbed by jeep caravans of humans invading their territory. Rather than a hotel, we stayed in a luxury tent that had an ensuite bathroom and a little heater for the cold nights. We were one of five guests staying there so it was very quiet and peaceful. The tents surrounded a nice size lawn area with comfy chairs and tables and individualized wood burning fires to keep you warm. It was very cosy eating then lingering late to talk and gaze up in wonder at the brilliantly star studded sky. I thought of my good friend Craig Smith who is an avid star gazer and how much he would love it here. That's something that you do miss a bit. There are so many times during a trip like this that you think of friends and loved ones you want to share different experiences with because they would love it too. Our wake up call was at 5:30 am so we eventually went to bed and slept very comfortably in our queen size bed. The next morning just as the sun was coming up we had a hot drink then with heavy blankets provided by the hotel we headed out in an open topped jeep. Because of its close proximity to the Golden Triangle stops of Delhi, Agra, Jaipur, this is a popular destination and it can be very difficult to secure a jeep. In fact we had a few tense moments wondering if we did have a reservation but Ajay again made sure we had a jeep with a small group of two other couples rather than the open top buses that hold upwards of 20. It was very cold but exhilarating and we saw lots of antelopes and other wildlife but unfortunately only tiger tracks instead of the real thing. DSC03642.jpgDSC03644.jpg (In Ranthambore)

While we were disappointed we still relished being out in the forest and walking around in designated areas. We often spotted villagers hiding in the forest foraging for wood. At one point two women with huge bundles of firewood on their heads heard our jeep and must have thought we were the rangers. They started running and then ditched the wood to secure a hiding place. Deforestation is a serious concern in many areas throughout India and you wonder who will win the battle, struggling families trying to fill their basic needs or the conservationists. DSC03534.jpg (Our 'luxury' tent in the national park) DSC03554.jpgDSC03595.jpgDSC03610.jpg (Fresh tiger tracks...but no tiger)

The mini safari lasted about 3 hours and we returned to a pretty good breakfast then headed out to Agra. We'd been discussing what we would do after the tour which was nearing it's end, and although we knew we definitely wanted some beach time we couldn't decide exactly where. That's one of the beauties of India, you can climb the Himalayas, tour desert cities or laze on world class beaches. We'd been debating Andaman islands vs Kerala which is a lush southern state. Luckily for us, on our safari we met an Indian from the south and he was very discouraging about the Andaman islands. He was there recently on holidays and was himself appalled at how dirty the beaches were. That cinched it for us and we booked our flight to Kerala where we could do a backwater tour. DSC03471.jpgDSC03523.jpgDSC03527.jpg On the road in Rajasthan)

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A Journey to India - Namaskar, Delhi

January 19 - 22

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The advertisements all say "Incredible India" and it's true. It's very difficult to describe because if you've never been you just cannot fathom the extremes and intensities of what you see and experience. Even though this was not the first trip for either me or Elmar, entering India after Thailand was a shock. We flew from BKK to Colombo, Sri Lanka and then to New Delhi. We could have paused in Sri Lanka for a day or two but neither of us really wanted to. On the flight to New Delhi our seat partner switched seats to be close to family and we were joined by an Indian bushiness man who later introduced himself as Rajiv. He quickly seized the opportunity to start chatting once I pulled out my Rough Guide to read up on potential cities to visit. I have to confess that we were so content in Thailand living cheaply yet comfortably that we kept procrastinating re our plans for India. We were so reluctant to leave that Elmar actually looked up flights from India to Thailand. They were quite reasonable (i.e., less than 250 US$ pp) so we felt we had an escape.....just in case. So here we were, hours away from landing with no plan other than hotel secured for two nights and a wishlist of cities and a chatty neighbour. Rajiv shared his story with us and soon offered his recommendation of places to go in Rajasthan (a large state in the Northwest, more details to come later) and also sites and restaurants in Delhi where he was from. By the end of the 3 hour flight we had earmarked several cities in our book and we had an invitation to his home for lunch the next day. DSC02426.jpg (Rajiv, our new friend from Delhi).

Even after disembarking, he insisted on waiting until we cleared customs to make sure we got the right kind of taxi, the taxi driver knew exactly where to take us and that we had a reliable driver. Securing the right taxi might seem trivial to most but if you plan to travel to India sans the luxury of business where someone local plans and takes care of your every move, then educating yourself on the public transportation system is a must. India is an emerging country, which means there are still a lot of challenges that you'd find in developing nations. And for sure, transporting more than a billion people plus visitors ranks high on the list of 'gotta do better'. The amount of people owning vehicles has dramatically increased in recent years but this has not alleviated the problem, just created others such as the worse traffic snarls and jams you've ever seen and increased pollution. God bless the Brits for building railroad tracks but the rail system is also inadequate not only because it's limited in it's coverage of the country, but many are outdated, severely overcrowded and accidents take a ridiculous amount of lives every year. It's also very difficult to make advanced train bookings outside of the country as the online system operates on local Indian time and requires steps that can be frustrating and confusing. It's better to wait until you're on the ground and can either go to the train station or a reputable and reliable agent to make your booking. Buses taxis and tuk tuks or rickshaws are the other options to get around. Buses are either govt or private owned and most look as if they are from a different century. They are very simple in construction; many without glass windows only a sheet of hard plastic with folds like a fan at each seat that you can either roll up to let in some fresh air or fold down to keep out the rain. If you do take the bus, and sometimes for long distances they are the only option if you can't afford a private car, be sure to check then double and triple check that you are on the right bus. As we were to learn, saying "I don't know" doesn't seem to be a natural response with most people so they will pretend to know and give you elaborate misinformation. With taxis and tuk tuks, it's a rare occasion when you are quoted the right price particularly in high tourist areas. Strong negotiating skills and having advanced knowledge of general costs for your journey will save you from being scalped so ask your hotel ahead of time or a reliable information centre. At the New Delhi airport there are prepaid and pay as you go taxis. Prepaid are your best bet even if you are approached by a very friendly, kind driver who promises you a good deal. The airport is fairly new and looks very modern and western so you don't anticipate being scammed in such an environment but caution is required. It shouldn't cost more than 350/400 rupees from the airport to the city.

So back to the story of Rajiv now that it's clear how nice he was being especially since he had been away from home for an extended trip and had to wait for us to go through immigration and collect our bags. We didn't know quite what to think, was he too nice to be true? There was no gain for him however so we thanked him sincerely and just stood aside and watched as he led us to he prepaid stand, repeated our hotel name and address to the driver and added some details that of course we couldn't follow. Before he took off in his car we exchanged email addresses and made plans to connect the next day. He thought it would be best if he picked us up rather than us trying to find our way. The attention felt a little strange but we're pretty open people and this is what we wanted, to meet interesting strange and wonderful people. The taxi ride took about 45 minutes to get to the city centre where our hotel was located. It was still light and we noticed that as we got closer to our hotel the surroundings changed and not necessarily for the better. The road surface was deteriorating and cars, rickshaws, buses and motor bikes were honking their horns randomly and constantly while darting to where ever there was a hint of an opening to squeeze forward regardless if they were on the road or not. Women were dressed beautifully in bright coloured sarees and pungent smells, some good others not so much, intermittently grabbed at us as they were carried by the dry but not exactly warm breeze wafting through the windows. The driver needed to call our hotel a couple times but we eventually pulled up to a building that seemed to be at the heart of a bustling street. Not surprising with an address that reads Main Bazaar. The English of the check in staff was flawless and we were soon led to a basic, mostly clean but cold room. As the sun set the temperature dropped significantly and we felt it more keenly after leaving hot and humid Bangkok and because we didn't have winter gear. We decided to go for a walk anyway and I could tell that Elmar was eager to reacquaint himself as it had been 20 years since he was last in Delhi. We wondered down the street next to our hotel and frankly I had to keep reminding myself that this was the capital city of India. The 'road' which I'm being quite generous in calling it so was filled with animals, pedestrians and vehicles jockeying for space between the street vendors shouting their wares. Bangkok isn't a quiet or always clean city so it wasn't as if we were fresh from the western world but we felt as if every sense was being bombarded and while on the outside we seemed cool and in control, in truth we were reeling and frantically trying to assimilate it all. 1E6D18BB2219AC68178B27F4B906C143.jpgDSC02635.jpg (View from our 'Flashpacker' hotel in Delhi, Paharganj/Main Bazaar)

On our walk we thought we'd also look for someplace to eat as we generally are eager to try truly local food but the choices were few and the places we saw did not look appealing. Eventually we returned to the hotel and joined several other quests on the roof top restaurant. Everyone had their winter coats and hats on but even though we had none we didn't want to go anyplace else and it turned out to be a good decision as the food was very good. We had some of our favourite Indian foods; very spicy mutton Rogan Josh, chicken curry and Paratha (Indian bread) and to drink, Elmar had some very fine Kingfisher premium which is the local brew while I had sweet lassi, a yoghurt drink. Everything was satisfying and even comforting since we were feeling a bit out of our element. We spent a restless night, the room didn't warm up too much and our room felt like we were in the middle of grand central station. By next morning we were eager to do some more exploring and determine our next move. We decided to extend our stay for another night and opted for an upgraded room which was only $10.00 more but was bigger brighter and warmer and had a window that looked right unto the busy street. We also thought maybe things would look better in sunlight but it was pretty much the same; dirty and chaotic and for Elmar, pretty disappointing that in 20 years there didn't seem to be much progress, it was pretty much exactly as he remembered; or even worse. We walked to the train station to check out tickets as we decided we wanted to explore Rajasthan by train and the places Rajiv had recommended. By the way, we didn't get a chance to have lunch with him. He called our hotel and let us know that there was a death in his family. We were sorry to hear this and promised to let him know when we would be back in the area. The train station seemed to be under construction and we couldn't even locate the entrance. All along the way we were bombarded with vendors insisting that we needed to see their stuff, no need to buy, just look, only look. Ragged women with small babies propped on their hips followed us for yards constantly poking us and gesturing with beseeching eyes to give them money for the baby to eat. It felt like everyone wanted a piece of us and it generally started, with "Hi, where are you from, what's your name?" then we would get the hard press. We knew better than to respond to any of these tactics but it's still hard for me sometimes especially when children are involved. We finally reached the train station. Elmar after 20 years could remember where it was because so little had changed. It seemed to be under construction and we couldn't find the entrance so we had to ask for assistance. We chose someone who seemed to be an employee and he took us to a tuk tuk and told the driver where to take us. I'm still not sure why we couldn't have bought our tickets there but he said we needed to go to the DTTC which is the official tourism office for guidance and booking of train tickets. Once we got there, I became suspicious because the set up was more than a booking agent they also booked tours. And wouldn't you know it, no trains were available for the next 8 days. The agent, a tall handsome fast talking fast moving guy recommended that we book a car and driver vs the train as that would be easier and give us greater flexibility. It was actually quite interesting to watch the sales process unfolding right in front of our eyes. In about 10 mins. or so he had provided us with tea and had an itinerary for the next 12 days that would cover what's referred to as the Golden Triangle; Delhi, where we were, Jaipur the Pink City in Rajasthan and Agra, best known for the Taj Mahal. We shared other places we wanted to see and before we could complete the list it seemed, we had costs, hotels and an itinerary that mapped out a 13 day excursion that started with a tour of Delhi then hit the Rajasthan cities of Jaipur, Jodhpur, Udaipur, Pushkar. Then Ranthambore, which is a National wildlife Park, Agra then via train hit Varanasi the holy city and end with Kolkata formerly known as Calcutta. This would be a total of approx. 4000 km. These are the kinds of offers that can either be legit or a scam so what to do. The price options were not cheap especially if you wanted hotels with decent ratings. We hit the pause button with him and did a bit of checking on the internet. The hotels were within a price range that he'd quoted and received good ratings and positive feedback. We also looked at the booking agent's website and read reviews on trip advisor. It all seemed legit so we booked it, and prayed that we weren't being taken for a different ride. Below is a map of our route through Northern India.

Once we made the decision the tour went into effect immediately with the tour of Delhi. Crowded with 15 million people, it's sprawling, dirty and somehow despite it's touted progress still looks like a city trapped in the past. There are two parts to the city, Old Delhi which is more Islamic, filled with bazaars, and impressive structures like the Red Fort and the Jama Masjid which is India's largest mosque. DSC02453.jpgDSC02472.jpg1E64DA732219AC68175B28EAF089C19E.jpgDSC02456.jpgDSC02477.jpg (The Jama Masjid - the building and its curious visitors)

The city dates back to something like the 17th century and I didn't find it hard to picture life back then. New Delhi is British built and where you'll find wide, fairly clean, nicely paved boulevards, embassies for every major nation as well as the presidential palace. There are a lot of museums and cultural performances and if this will be your one stop in India there's a government sponsored emporium where you can buy anything that you could get elsewhere in India, from rugs from Kashmir to gems from Agra. Our tour that afternoon and the next day felt a bit whirlwind as we raced to each site but hey the time was limited and our driver had a list to cover. We unfortunately didn't get to see the Red Fort as the national holiday Republic Day was upcoming on January 26th and heavy preparations for the celebrations were taking place which closed the Fort to visitors. It was interesting seeing the preparations. We saw decorated camels and soldiers going through their paces and lots of decorations. DSC02558.jpgA592679F2219AC68170379DB2DE98003.jpg (Preparations for Republic Day)
We knew we would be missing an elaborate performance but it couldn't be helped. We enjoyed the other sites however including Oz opera house looking building (Baha’i Temple) DSC02628.jpg

That evening we froze our heinies off again at the roof top restaurant and again it was comforting and delicious after the hectic afternoon. We also slept better. We were much more comfortable and warmer in the upgraded room and it was much quieter too. After a filling and tasty breakfast of French toast and pancakes we headed out the next morning to see more of Old and New Delhi. Our first stop was a Hindu temple, where we heard about so many different gods my head was reeling trying to remember their names and what form they could appear in and what prayers they granted. It was nice to see female gods many who were warriors. One of my favourite has several arms and her name is Durga. In one hand she wields a sword, a head dripping blood in another and one foot crushing another head. I liked the girl power aspects especially as the bodies were unashamedly female as well. The most popular gods were those who represented money, good luck, power and protection from evil and no matter the time of day the temples were regularly visited by young and old. DSC02539.jpg (Hindu temple in Old Delhi)

We walked for hours through tombs of past royalties set in lovely gardens including Mahatma Gandhi’s tomb, even through markets and alleys tasting local snacks, gawking at everything and being gawked at in return. DSC02557.jpg (The 'Great Salt March' memorial in Delhi) DSC02504.jpg (Street vendor selling sweet curd - super cheap and super tasty) DSC02485.jpgDSC02481.jpg (A Muslim festival in Old Delhi; men pounding their chests until they bleed)

The last stop was the government emporium with floor after floor of just about every imaginable souvenir a shopping junkie craves and where quality if not a cheap price is assured. We returned to the hotel exhausted again but as Elmar and I reflected over drinks there were some distinct impressions that Delhi left. One, the people are beautiful, both men and women and you want to cuddle each child including the street urchins because they just pull you in with their dark eyes. There are heartbreaking moments though of seeing some very young children, some as young as 2 years that are wandering the streets with other children learning the fine art of being a persistent beggar. 2nd, is an overwhelming distaste for how very dirty the city is, shockingly so at times for what if not the economic capital (Mumbay is), is supposedly a major metropolis. People seemed to be in the habit of throwing on the ground whatever they didn't want and if there were regular sanitation efforts to deal with refuse we couldn't find signs of it other than where governmental buildings were. Elmar felt that the city had taken a few steps back as he felt the poor infrastructure and magnitude of poverty was at best no better and from his memory actually worse than when he'd been there 20 years ago. 3rd, is the rich history of the city, things like seeing Ghandi's monuments and tomb reminded us of the power of a single voice when you are fully convicted to live your beliefs against all odds. What we were seeing hurt us but we cautioned ourselves not to become too sanctimonious and judgmental in wondering why no one was speaking out and doing 'something!' We'd just arrived and we needed to learn much more. 4th, the emporium which exposed us to more of the skilled selling tactics practiced here heartened us because we felt equally slick leaving there without making one purchase. The key is not to show even a whisper of interest in anything. We soon realized that every eye flicker or even a slight lingering look was a signal that they would pounce on and do everything to keep you listening to their spiel including whipping out 50 variations of whatever caught your eye. We went to bed looking forward to leaving Delhi and hoping that we would see stronger signs of the upcoming super power we know India has the potential to be. DSC02522.jpg (In front of the Red Fort, Delhi) DSC02597.jpgA597B9652219AC6817A416EBCBFE7C96.jpg (At Qutb Minar complex) DSC02535.jpg (I am sure the real estate costs for this barber shop are low)

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Good Bye, Bangkok

January 14 - 19, 2013

sunny 31 °C
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After our live aboard trip in the Andaman Sea we went back to Phuket for one night before we flew back to Bangkok. Unfortunately, while I escaped the stomach bug on the boat it hit me almost immediately after we stepped off it and for the next couple of days I was sick, which made the trip back to Bangkok a miserable experience. But we used the couple of days we had in Bangkok for some shopping we needed to do in preparation for our onward journey to India. We also hooked up with our friend Suchada again and met for lunch and dinner with her and Dzhangar, one of DDI’s employees in the Moscow office, who is on an assignment in our Bangkok office for accelerated development. It was good seeing him again and while I had met him and spent some time with him during visits in Moscow and Europe, Anna only had spoken with him on the phone and via email related to several projects.DSC02421.jpg(Dinner with friends in Bangkok)

It was great to spend such a nice evening together with friends and some great Thai food before saying good bye to Suchada, Dzhangar and Thailand. We knew that we would miss Thailand but we were also looking forward to very different experiences in India.

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Nongkai – the “Visa Run City”

December 16 - 18

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If you follow our blog you might remember that I mentioned a rather strange encounter we had in Nongkai. Actually, it took place while having dinner at the Thai-Chinese restaurant where we had dinner after we arrived in Nongkai. While we were eating we noticed a slightly weird looking guy sitting at the table behind us. He was very tall, lanky, very, very pale and when he walked it looked like as if he’d just swallowed a broom – he didn’t seem to move any body parts above his waist when walking. He was chugging down large Leo beers and he had already several of those sitting on the little side table next to him (something Thai restaurants do, probably in order not to loose count of the bottles of alcohol people consume) when he made contact with us.
We found out that his name was Jack and that he was from Ireland. We didn’t want to be rude and invited him over to our table, an offer that he didn’t resist in the least and in no time he was sitting on our table and started chatting. We actually thought this could be an interesting conversation but we were clearly wrong. Jack was just a very strange cat and besides the fact that he was planning to “settle” in Nongkai we didn’t really find out any more about him or his thoughts. His favorite phrase was, “if you know what I mean” at the end of long-winded, circular sermons which made no sense whatsoever. Whenever we asked a question like, “What are you planning to do here in Nongkai” or “what did you do back in Ireland” he used to respond with, “Well, that’s a long story” before rambling along, getting off into unrelated topics and ending his explanations with things that had nothing to do with the original question.
While we were sitting there it got increasingly chilly (chilly meaning slightly above 20 degrees celcius) and Anna was starting to get cold, so she decided to get a jacket back at the hotel. However, while she was at the room she decided she had enough of Jack and was getting tired of listening to him, so she just stayed at the hotel and fell asleep – smart of her. Unfortunately, this left me completely at Jack’s mercy but after realizing that he just needed someone to talk at and drink with I accepted my fate. Almost two hours, a dozen of Leo beers and a happy waitress later we finally parted ways and stumbled in opposite directions. And to this day I have no clue whatsoever what Jack was trying to tell me between, “Hi, I’m Jack from Ireland” and “Good night; it was great talking with you”. Sometimes you just meet the strangest people when travelling and although Jack was not a ‘bad’ guy, we were not keen on repeating the experience we had with him.
However, this was already put to the test the next day when we were having a coffee in a small street café in Nongkai. When we were sipping our coffees we realized that Jack was sitting in the back of the café. We thought what are the odds but we could not muster the courage to even acknowledge or say hi to him. I know it sounds mean but we were too afraid of another episode of him talking at us while we were wondering what the heck he’s trying to say. So, after we finished our coffee we just paid up and left, trying hard not even to look back in order to eliminate any chance of Jack latching on to us again.

Other than that, Nongkai is a fairly sleepy and quiet town right at the border to Laos and separated by the mighty Mekong river. We used the day to wander around, taking long strolls along the river, stopping at a couple o f the small temples along the way and taking an afternoon break in one of the nicer guesthouses right at the river. It’s called Mut Mee Guesthouse and it has a nice outside restaurant under old, beautiful trees and some of the rooms they rent out are individually decorated in very interesting designs. They also have a restaurant on a boat that is docked in the river just a few steps down from the hotel.

DSC01701.jpg (The mighty Mekong river in Nongkai)DSC01696.jpg

There were only a few other tourists but there seems to be a small “expat” community in Nongkai, mainly consisting of a few chaps who start drinking beer at noon in a small Scandinavian owned watering hole and retirees from different countries. We also met a number of German retirees who seem to meet every morning in a little German bakery. We actually went there one morning and had a pretty decent and authentic German breakfast, including dark bread and rolls, prosciutto, eggs and cheese. Thais don’t really eat too much for breakfast and breakfast options are very limited so this was a nice change. Many of the retirees seem to like Nongkai since it is quiet, very cheap and has a good climate. With US$ 500 per month you can actually have a pretty decent life in this part of Thailand, including rent for a small place.

DSC01698.jpg(The typical tuk tuks in this region)DSC01726.jpg(Street vendor in Nongkai)

We were actually a bit surprised that Nongkai was so quiet, we saw very few tourists. Tourism seems to have gone down this season and although Nongkai was never much of a tourist destination it attracted foreigners who wanted to extend their Thai tourist visa. The typical Thai tourist visa allows you to stay within Thailand for 30 days continuously. Before the 30 are over you need to leave the country and re-enter to be allowed another 30 days in the country. Naturally, many foreigners like to stay for extended periods in Thailand or even retire there and this requires that you leave the country on a regular basis. Nongkai used to be one of the few border crossings that made it fairly easy to leave Thailand into Laos and come back after a day or few hours. And that’s the main reason why people came to Nongkai. Nowadays there are more options for “visa runs” along the border, which seems to have an impact on the number of foreigners who pass through Nongkai.

One of the reasons why we came to Nongkai was to check out boat cruises on the Mekong river. Unfortunately though, there are no cruises that start in Nongkai. Most of them start in the North of Thailand, e.g. Chiang Rai or Mae Sot or in Vientiane, the capital of Laos which is only 24 km from Nongkai. There are also cruises that start in Vietnam and end in Vientiane and they will take anything between 14 and 21 days. At some point we probably will do that since Mekong cruises seem to be fascinating. But unfortunately this time we were out of luck and didn’t want to drive to Vientiane which you can conveniently do taking the “Friendship” bridge in Nongkai, a project that was funded by the Australian government as a development aid to Laos and it opened in 1994. We had been in Laos before, in Luang Prabang, which we liked tremendously but we didn’t hear many positive things about Vientiane so we didn’t make the effort to find out ourselves and pay the relatively high fee to enter the country.

So, after a couple of days in Nongkai we decided to head towards the Central Plains and visit the former Thai capitals of Sukothai and Ayutthaya which we had never visited before. But before we got on the highway heading West we stopped at Sala Kaew Ku (Wat Khaek), which has to be one of the most bizarre open air museums around. Some of the giant sculptures that are on display look as if their designers were on crystal meth when they conceived them, some of them are esthetically pleasing but many are just outright scary and sick looking. But we enjoyed this display of ‘bizarrness’ nevertheless since you won’t be able to see anything like it anywhere else.

DSC01733.jpgDSC01739.jpgDSC01769.jpg(Statues at Sala Kaew Ku park)

In the early afternoon we finally started to head towards Sukothai, which is a beautiful drive through changing terrain for about 5-6 hours. After driving through typical Isaan villages and countryside we passed through two national parks with very mountainous terrain. Every few hundred yards there were signs warning of “elephants crossing” and while we didn’t spot any wild elephants (only lots of droppings) we enjoyed the ride tremendously. It is lush green as far as you can see and at night the rainforest seemed to take over completely, encroaching on the street we were driving on. We also saw a number of interesting looking resorts and might come back to this region, which is certainly off the beaten track for (at least foreign) tourists.

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We arrived late in the evening in Sukothai and we knew from the description of the hotel we booked again on agoda.com that the place was close to the entrance of the Sukothai Historic Park. We could locate the park entrance fairly easily but drove around for another 30 minutes until we found our hotel, which was tucked away in the fields about a mile or so from the park entrance. But finally we could check into our place, which comprises of 6-8 little bungalows in a quiet setting (Baan Rim Klong Resort). So we just unloaded the car and drove to a nearby street restaurant which was also a tourist guest house. They had all our Thai favorites and we were chatting with some of the other tourists and staff until they closed at around 10 PM. People go to bed early in this region but we were tired from the long drive and went back to our hotel, again a good deal for about US$24.

DSC01811.jpg(Our small bungalow in Sukothai)

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Sawasdee Khrap, Bangkok

November 23 – December 3

semi-overcast 33 °C
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In our introduction to this blog we prefaced that we will put particular emphasis on three things, or passions of ours: Food, interesting people and great diving. And Thailand offers an abundance of all three of them and I could go on and on about describing the many delicious meals we’ve had and will have in Thailand, the many interesting, funny, gentle or bizarre people we’ve met or the beautiful dive spots Thailand has to offer. But it would probably bore you to death and you have to experience it yourself since words can hardly describe these unique, sometimes very subtle and sometimes ‘in your face’ experiences you can only have in Thailand. But I thought that the following words from Anthony Bourdain very eloquently describe the essence of Thailand – if you are open to it:

===There is no place like Thailand. It is one of the greatest of foodie destinations and in marked contrast to the violence of their national sport–and the occasional outbreak of political strife, one of the least dangerous, most gentle and tolerant places I’ve ever been. Thailand, in my experience, is a country where a visitor can pretty much wander at will without anything resembling a plan, eating everything in sight, relying completely on the kindness of strangers–and only good things will happen.===
(From Athony Bourdain’s Blog, August 16th, 2009)

A day early, due to a slight change in our flights and skipping our planned two-day stint to Singapore, we flew into Bangkok on a direct flight from Brisbane with Thai Air, which is always a pleasant experience. Again, as usual and due to all the friendly words, smiles and chit chat at the check in counter, we secured the last two seats in an exit row.

Our first stop and home base on this trip was Bangkok and we felt immediately at “home” when we arrived at the airport, picked up our luggage and exchanged money right at the luggage belt. We also bought a prepaid SIM card, which is very cheap and convenient in Thailand. I wish all countries, especially European countries, the US or Australia would make it that easy for travellers to get connected via phone, internet, transportation etc. So if you ever plan on visiting Thailand, pick up a SIM card right at the airport with any of the providers, e.g., Dtac and it only takes about 5 minutes. You also can buy top up vouchers at pretty much any 7-Eleven or Family Mart store, which you can find at almost every corner of the country.

Our taxi ride into the city, which is comparatively cheap even compared to the BTS (the modern Skytrain in Bangkok built by Siemens), was already one of these weird and unique, but also typical experiences that you can only have in Bangkok - but it took us a while to fully realize how bizarre the situation was. The taxi driver that was assigned to us at the counter for public taxis looked a bit “strange” when he helped us put our luggage into the car but we only connected the dots once we were sitting in the taxi and had some time to take it all in. One of the things that we noticed after a while was this Elvis puppet hanging from the windshield, one of those cheap plastic figurines that shake with every twist and turn of the car. And boy, did he put the pedal to the metal – he raced with 140 kilometers towards downtown Bangkok, so the figurine got a good work out. But then we realized that our taxi driver had the same hair style and glasses like the little Elvis in the windshield. So we looked at the Elvis puppet in the windshield, looked at the taxi driver, looked back at the puppet again and suddenly realized…they are both Elvis, looking pretty much alike sans the clothes (the taxi driver that is). So we figured that he probably goes off after work as a taxi driver and hires as an Elvis imitator at a cheap watering hole or cruise boat. There are not too many places in the world where this is perfectly normal and nobody gives it a second thought but we had to chuckle when we took in the absurdity of the situation – and we loved it.

But since this blog should also be somewhat educational for other travellers here’s a few tips for transportation in Thailand and especially Bangkok. First of all, taxis are very cheap and often the most convenient, fast and cost effective option. A taxi ride from Shuvarnabhumi airport to anywhere in the city sets you back between 250 and 400 baht (8-13 US$), including highway toll. You can take the Bts (Skytrain) into the city but if you are more than 3-4 travellers, taxi is almost as cheap as Bts. When you are travelling within the city, assuming you are staying somewhere central, you can either take the Bts, MRT or taxi. When you take a taxi, ask them to put the Meter on – often they don’t want to and call a price that’s sometimes double or triple the realistic amount. Secondly, don’t take a Tuk Tuk if you don’t have to. Typically, it’s a big scam and they want to take you to a night or gem market. Unless you know the “local” rate for a Tuk Tuk and you can negotiate something close to it, stay away from them. Other than that, transportation is easy, quick (unless during rush hour and in the suburbs) and convenient.

Now, if you ever want to go to Bangkok, we would be the first to recommend it. But you got to be prepared for a few things that make Bangkok unique.

"Bangkok is a city of extremes and superlatives, a city you do not react to indifferently," says Thailand at a Glance. "Recently declared the world's hottest city by the World Meteorological Organization, it also boasts the world's longest name: Krung-thep-maha-nakorn-boworn-ratana-kosin-mahintar-ayudhya-amaha-dilok-pop-nopa-ratana-rajthani-burirom-udom-rajniwes-mahasat-arn-amorn-pimarn-avatar-satit-sakattiya-visanukam.

Not surprisingly, only a handful of Thais can remember such a mouthful, although the abbreviated translation of the whole is a relatively brief Jewelled City of the God Indra. However, most Thais simply refer to it as Krung Thep, “City of Angels."

Over the next ten days or so we did exactly what Tony Bourdain prescribes: ”…pretty much wander at will without anything resembling a plan, eating everything in sight, relying completely on the kindness of strangers–and only good things will happen”. We hardly had a plan whenever we started a day and just explored the different neighbourhoods (called districts) of Bangkok, wandered along street food stalls, night markets, shopping centers and massage places.

DSC00998.jpg (Thai noodle soup with fish balls from a street food stall)
IMG_0307.jpg (Teddybear rice - gotta try it!)

The things that were on our agenda though included getting visas for India since we didn’t get them back in the US – as many things, Thailand and especially Bangkok has the amazing quality of making otherwise long and tedious processes relatively simple and efficient. Getting a visa for India in the US would take at least 5-10 working days and you can only apply if you are a US citizen with residence in the US. You also have to drive to to one of the major Indian embassies to apply in person or otherwise the process takes even longer. For non-residents it’s a much more complicated and long process and it could take weeks. Not so in Bangkok – we prepared our applications and went to VFS on Sukhumvit road, which is the India visa applications center and which has been outsourced by the Indian embassy. We spent the better part of an afternoon there but walked away with our visa application submitted. And low and behold, after about 7 business days we found out through our weblink that was provided to us that our visas were ready for pick up…simple as that.

We also had the pleasure to meet with our good friend Suchada and went out to lunch with her a couple of times to have an extended lunch. It was lovely to see her and spend some time with her and we had some great food as well – one lunch was at a place called Greyhound Café on soi Thong Lor off Sukhumvit road. They serve Thai fusion fare and it was surprisingly good. We shared the other meal at the mall close to the DDI office (Central Chitlom), which provided the opportunity for us to quickly pop in to the office and say hi to the very lovely Thai DDI team. Anna had never been in the Thai office and I was very happy to see some of the office staff which I’ve always had a soft spot in my heart for.

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DSC01055.jpg (Having lunch with Suchada at Greyhound Cafe)

Another activity that we regularly enjoyed was taking the public taxi boat from Sathon Pier at the end of the Bts line (Saphan Taksin) down the Chao Phraya river. It’s very cheap, sets you back between 10 and 20 Bht (30-60 cents) per person for an hour-long ride or however long you’d like to stay on the boat, going up and down the river. It’s a great way to catch a fresh breeze during the hottest hours of the day, rub shoulders with the locals and see the gleaming high rises and ancient temples pass by.

IMG_0335.jpg (Getting cozy with the locals on the Chao Phraya taxi boat)
DSC01116.jpg (Rama VIII bridge at night from the taxi boat)
DSC01108.jpg (A dinner cruise boat on the Chao Phraya at night)
DSC01134.jpg (Wat Arun at night from the taxi boat)

We had seen many of the temples that we saw from the boat or the Grand Palace before, so we didn’t engage in much temple sight seeing this time. As said before, we were more guided by just taking in different neighbourhoods, people, and day-to-day life. However, we found a great list of things that someone pulled together and which is a pretty nifty guide for people who’d like to explore Bangkok beyond the usual travel guides.

101 Things to do in Bangkok

DSC00999.jpg (A typical street food stall 'chef')
DSC01002.jpg (Elmar eating fish ball soup)

Try it out next time when you’re in Bangkok. Before finishing this post I feel the urge to point out a couple of additional things and give some advice. Firstly, Thailand and even the major metropolis of Bangkok is cheap! Compared to Europe, the US, Australia or even many Asian countries these days you can live on a tight budget and don't miss anything. We stayed at hotels for 30US$/night and did not see a difference to solid three to four star hotels in Europe or the US in terms of service and accommodation. The great thing about Thailand is that even for a fraction of the money you'd pay in other places you can get great quality and service. If you are o.k. with street food, you can eat as much as you can for a few dollars. A Thai noodle soup with fish, pork or beef balls and all the good greens for example will only cost you 1.50US$ or less...and that's a full and healthy meal. On the other hand, you can also stay at the Mandarin Oriental and pay 500-800 US$ for a 'no frills' double room - no frills at Mandarin Oriental standard of course. Similarly, you can spend hundreds of dollars on a lavish meal in one of the high-class Thai restaurants or some of the restaurants serving foreign food like Indian, Italian or even German. You definitely have the choice in Thailand.

One final piece of advice that I'd like to share is to not let a day pass without getting a massage. It is wonderfully relaxing after a long walk or a good dinner. Just stay away from a Thai massage after a large meal since the often tiny massage therapists work you over good. In this case opt for a foot massage, which is very relaxing, you can listen to music or watch one of the Thai soap operas running on one of the wall-mounted TVs at many cheap massage places. But don't be surprised if, without warning, the person massaging you screams out loud if a particularly dramatic scene is showing - of course followed by excited chatter of the whole gang of massage therapists in the room. Thais love drama!

IMG_0317.jpg (Getting our daily massage for 6US$/hour)

Instead of boring you with more stories and experiences from Bangkok I’ve just included a few pictures that provide a little bit of an array of impressions of everyday life and scenarios – of course they can only provide a small slice of what Bangkok is. But pictures sometimes speak louder than words. Enjoy and see you in Krung Thep!

DSC01155.jpg (Ananta Samakhom Throne Hall close to the Thai Parliament)
DSC00991.jpg (Gangnam hype everywhere)
DSC01007.jpg (A fruit vendor at Chatuchak market)
DSC01011.jpg (A street vendor with his mobile kitchen at Cahtuchak market)
DSC01027.jpg (A pork meat vendor at Chatuchak market)
DSC01094.jpg (A food stall in Bangkok's Chinatown)
DSC01100.jpg (A typical street in Bangkok's Chinatown)
IMG_0296.jpg (Dinner at 'Coco Walk' night market at Ratchatewi Bts station)
IMG_0311.jpg (Sticky rice with mango...yummy)
DSC01038.jpg (A Thai beauty selling coconut ice-cream at Chatuchak market)
IMG_0305.jpg (Don't Eat Here!)

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G’day Oz – meeting old friends in Sydney

November 12-15 Monday (Day 18-20) Anna's first post

semi-overcast 18 °C
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I must admit that I wasn’t anticipating Australia with the same level of excitement as Fiji and initially it seemed as if my expectations were well founded. First, since it was summer I was expecting it to be quite warm and to my surprise it was a bit cool (19C or 66F). We arrived around 8:00 pm after a 5.5 hr flight on Jet Star; one of those budget airlines where you pay to watch a movie or have a drink. Fortunately for us, being hungry was a good thing as we arrived at our friends’ Andrew and Dani Warren Smith’s home where we were welcomed with a warm hug and home cooked meal. They made us feel very much at home and by the next morning we were enfolded into the morning ritual of getting the boys off to school. The boys, Nick, Ross and Matthew are miniatures of Andrew in mannerism (cool and self assured:-), and while they might not appreciate my saying so, totally adorable. I’m not sure how Andrew and Dani accomplish it but they play and interact very well together without the typical squabbling that I would anticipate from 3 active siblings up pretty early and needing to get ready for school.

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The second seeming mood killer was the high price of any and everything. There is nothing you can buy in Oz for one dollar and with the exchange rate not favouring the US dollar we or rather I began to feel redundant constantly exclaiming, “OMG, how much? no way!” We decided to spend the morning at the zoo and after a bus and ferry ride that gave us a great view of Sydney’s unique harbor and sky line we wondered through the Taronga zoo seeing up close and personal things you can only see in Oz--Koala bears that are truly as cute as the stuffed versions (you can almost touch them as they are uncaged and basically sleep all day in eucalyptus trees), Kookaburra birds, kangaroos, dingos and wombats to name a few. The only thing we didn’t get a chance to see is the duckbilled platypus as they’re nocturnal.

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DSC00783.jpg (Sydney Harbour & Harbour Bridge on the way to Taronga Zoo)

DSC00765.jpg (Anna petting a wallaby at Taronga Zoo)

Of course we had another OMG moment when we strolled by the food court where a fast food (not gourmet) hamburger and fries was about $17AUSD which is roughly around 18 US$ at current exchange rate. We absolutely refused to pay such a ridiculous price and walked off in a righteous huff. But after wandering through the city site seeing for the rest of the afternoon we had to swallow our disgust and satisfy our grumbling tummies. We still complained but realized no one including our stomachs cared. Thank goodness Andrew and Dani’s kind hospitality not only warmed our hearts being in a family atmosphere but also our stomachs.

The other thing I would mention re Sydney is that you should get a handle on where you want to go and how you plan to get there as we found street signs, bus lines and even the bus drivers not particularly tourist friendly. If you don’t know your bus route there are no indications in the bus or clear road signs to alert you when you’re approaching your stop or how close or far you are from your intended destination. As we tried to return to Andrew and Dani’s place we were thankfully helped by a friendly commuter who confirmed the correct stop to await the bus and also let us know that queuing is a must if you don’t want to be reprimanded by residents. This includes all public transportation, even boats/ferries. The only problem we had now is we didn’t know when to exit the bus and of course Elmar being typical male didn’t want to ask. I knew I should have checked anyway when as we hustled off the bus the friendly commuter who knew our destination looking puzzled and with raised eyebrows shook his head at us as the bus pulled away. Now what to do? I thought we should just take a taxi but no, that would have meant ‘someone’ admitting we didn’t know where we were or how to get ‘home’. So we just took off walking. The irritating end to this story for me is that somehow Elmar picked the right direction and without making one wrong turn or using any technology, found the house in 30 mins…sigh. I had so wanted it to be a teachable moment for him☺.

For our second day in Sydney we decided to ‘stay home’ and get caught up on some outstanding ‘to dos’ such as laundry, finally getting internet access so we could upload our first blog entry but most importantly connecting with family. Dani graciously allowed me to use some of her international calling card minutes and I was able to talk with my daughters and nieces who luckily couldn’t see my tears of joy….they would have teased me for sure. I miss them so much already! We unfortunately didn’t find this out until later and while it’s not a super easy process, purchasing telephone minutes is one thing that’s not too expensive. Best of all you can make very cheap calls to the US once you’ve gone through the hoops. You also don’t need a contract so via a local service like Vodaphone which we purchased at a local supermarket we were able to talk to the US as long as we wanted, (once connected) for one Oz dollar. I know, that’s crazy cheap isn’t it? We didn’t discover this until we were heading out of Oz but trust me, I used the phone right up until the flight attendant insisted I turn it off.

But back to the second day where we had a big evening ahead of us. Mark Busine, another great friend in Oz invited us to join his family for a real Oz ‘barbie’ or barbecue for those not familiar with the term. There is nothing that helps you get a pulse on real life in a country more than spending time in someone’s home and we were privileged to have two invitations. The Busine family made us feel special and we had a lot of fun sharing stories, comparing pictures of our travels and enjoying an excellent meal. My heart was full as we left Sydney the next day, I was truly thankful to connect with true friends and be reminded that distance doesn’t really matter when hearts are knitted together. On such an extended trip as well such visits take on even more meaning as it provides a deeper sense of connection and a respite. Other than your partner your connections come from your ability to reach out to strangers, share experiences; seeking and swapping the history and motivation of your journey. If your travels can include visits with friends, I highly recommend it.

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IMG_0078.jpg (Barbecue with the Busines)

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